Forget perfect planning......just get out there!

Forget perfect planning just get out there!

A lot of guys I know always put off going out and actually approaching women. They sit at home in front of the computer screen and study technique after technique. They buy and watch every dvd released and subscribe to every free newsletter going.
Why do they do this? Same reason I did when I first started to study game. We are searching for the perfect line or technique to guarantee us success or more importantly to prevent us from being rejected.
Now it is important to understand that attraction can be generated easily overriding a women’s normal criteria that she looks for in a man. This is crucial if you are broke, old and not good looking like me! Also it is important to have a gameplan similar to my tried and tested model however this is not a rigid science as there are far too many variables. The game is played in the moment and the best way to learn is to play it. Would you learn to play golf by study and never hit a ball then enter a tournament excepting to win? Then when you failed would you blame the book or the instructional dvd. However this is how a lot of men view their failings with women.
Start to alter your mindset and treat attracting women as a normal skill and approach it as you would if you were taking up a new sport. Sure you would read up about it but then go out and practice. You would expect to screw up a few times and see slow but gradual progress.
You would learn from your mistakes and correct them slowly. You would look back a few months down the line and congratulate yourself. Thinking how much you had improved. Failure is part of natural learning.
So get your gameplan together then get out this weekend and try out your material. Improve what works and discard what doesn’t. Don’t dwell on the failure dwell on the positives.
If you want to learn more about generating attraction in women from a man that has been through all the stages then get in touch.
After all would you take swimming lessons from a teacher who had never even been in the water!
All my teachings are from my experience of seven years in the game. My goal was always seduction at the minimum expense, as I don’t like spending my money on women I don’t even know!

Talk to you soon Nathan

time for your spring offensive!

Hi guys

Well it looks like spring is finally here in the UK with the start of Easter. All of my posts from now on will be based on my actual infield experience and less on theory. I love it when the nights draw out and the general mood starts to improve. More importantly it is coming to the natural mating season and women will be subconsciously looking for a suitable mate. This all makes it so much easier for men who have realised that attraction is just a skill and have had the intelligence to learn it. We don’t even have to be that good, as most guys haven’t got a clue they just think it is a mystic gift and rely on chance. If you want to learn more or have any questions please contact me on silvafox99@hotmail.com .
Any way yesterday I played around with my just talk technique. It’s a direct approach were you just talk to the person as you would an old friend. To emphasise again the need for a strong base it is all about the body language and voice confidence. My mindset for this approach is I am talking to my younger sister with humour and gentle authority. Did two approaches and it worked fantastic and the women just opened naturally. All my approaches are based on daygame which for me is the only game in town!! I hate spending money in expensive clubs and having to be up late. Isn’t it so much easier to pick up women throughout your day and get them straight back to your place?
Go out today and instead of rehearsing complex openers just try it. The opener is just a tool to focus attention on to you therefore if it’s to complex they focus on the opener!
Anyway get off the computer today its Saturday and there will be opportunities everywhere. Try the just talk approach and let me know how it went.
Give me your feedback and if you think a friend would benefit from learning this skill tell him about it.


Talk to you soon Nathan

What’s holding you back from success with women?

With me it was my age and looks. However as I have studied and learnt the skill of attraction I have discovered that most men have an excuse for their lack of success. Here are a few of the common ones I have come across:
Its my: height, age, income, body, nationality, teeth, looks, and hair.
This is an easy way to rationalise failure however once you except that attraction is an energy that can be created then start to learn and apply you will see remarkable results. Results that will have younger and better looking men staring in awe at you.
These men are playing to the conventional game. They waste time working out at the gym because they think big muscles attract women. Buying worthless "hair restoration" products to try and re-grow their hair because they think being bald hurts their success with women. Working at a job they hate because they think women are only attracted to successful guys with money.
But wait a minute! Look around you for evidence that this isn’t true. Next time you go out see how many hot women are with fat ugly blokes. We have all seen this and asked ourselves “how does he do it”. Well maybe they have realized that generating attraction is skill based.
If you want to learn how to improve your success with women then visit my Website now. Its totally free and contains techniques that work!!

Talk to you soon Nathan

Going out alone

If you have to go out on your own to a club it takes a lot of determination as it is not a pleasant experience. There is a lot of competition and when you are on your own it is quite intimidating. The are going to be no women on their own as they will all be with friends and its expensive. Women can sense you are on your own and can be friendly with you just to get drinks. There is a easier and cheaper way!
The easiest thing to do if you have no one to go out with is daygame. It’s not weird to be on your own and a lot of women will be shopping by themselves. After shopping there are coffee shops and pubs attached to most shopping centres were it is quite expectable to call in for a quick drink. Women will go to these after shopping and as they are not in a pick up location their defences are low. They will chat easily as they feel safe and relaxed as it is in the afternoon. Contrast this to late at night around the clubs when there are gangs of men out drinking and you can understand why they feel safe. There is very little competition if any at all as most men don’t think it is possible to pick up women in the daytime.
So shift your effort to approaching and attracting women in the daytime. Its in expensive and you have opportunities 24/7

Talk to you soon Nathan

Girls just want to have fun!

Girls just want to have fun!

I know this is going to sound very basic however the vast amount of guy’s miss this most important truth. Women just love men that laugh easily and don’t take themselves too seriously. Men that walk round with a happy disposition and a smile! Lots of guy’s walk around giving it the mean and moody seeming to hope that women will swoon over them. It works in the movies but here in the real world it just doesn’t cut it.
A few years ago a barman did a now famous survey where he asked women what they found most attractive in a man. Guess the outcome? Over 80% said it was a smile.
So when you go out this weekend instead of going out to pick up women just go out and enjoy yourself. Be happy just socialising and talking to your friends. Don’t be predatory like a lot of groups of guys I see just watching the doors to see what women come in. it is so obvious and women can sense it. Just go out this weekend and have some fun!!

Talk to you soon Nathan

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making you’re move

Hey guys..
You know what its like when you have met a woman and the interaction is going well. You think she likes you and all of a sudden you are filled with hesitation on when to make you’re move.
All the possible scenarios run through you’re heads causing a temporary blip that she will notice. She notices this because she has seen it a thousand times before a man has made his move. It’s predictable and triggers her he’s going to ask me out pattern. Now this is fine if you’re young and good looking but if you’re not its going to create problems. If you are prepared and know what to say everything is smooth!
The way I have learnt to combat this is with a seamless transition into closing. Its is simple however it does require practice infield and most of all the correct mindset. If you attach to much meaning to the interaction you will probably blow it. You have to come from the mindset of abundance. Think about it, once you have learnt the skills you will have a never ending supply. Do you think you will come across as desperate then?
Women will pick up the vibe that your not desperate and it will generate lots of attraction. You will be different from the rest, as you are not desperate and needy. In some instances they will start to pursue you, as they will see you as a challenge.
How I accomplish this is to have my close in the “can” delivered in a natural its up to you tone. The only way to get this is to practice and be prepared to burn a few times! You can’t get these calibration skills any other way. Here is my number one for a seamless transition without triggering her pick up pattern alert!
“Hey its fun talking to you, lets go grab a coffee”.
Deliver this with the body language of a half turn as if you are going to walk away. You will be shocked at how easy a lot of women will just follow you when you display this confidence and authority.
Obviously you must have a coffee shop in mind but you have read my basic guide so you will have prepared for success??
Does that sound to easy for a man in his forties to get a young student out on an instant date for coffee. You know when I first started to learn these attraction skills I would have been sceptical but now I can do it easy!
Go on try it for yourself and let me know how it went. You can contact me at silvafox99@hotmail.com and maybe learn some more.
If you enjoy my articles why not pass it on to your good friends especially if they are struggling with the women.
Over winter I have set up a free website were I have hosted my free basic guide. There are no downloads as it is all there for instantly access. Check it out if you want to improve your success with women.

Talk to you soon Nathan.

Day game is so easy!

About four years I was fortunate when a friend actually demonstrated a pick up in a supermarket for me. I never realized how easy it actually was and was still a little apprehensive when I first tried it. It went so well that I couldn’t believe it. Ever since then I have concentrated on day game and stopped going to expensive clubs.

When women are out shopping they are comfortable and relaxed. Compare this to when they are out in bars constantly being ogled by desperate men. Men who are drunk approach them with lust written all over their faces. Think how you feel when you go in a rowdy bar were there are big gangs of drunken men. Makes you feel kind of edgy doesn’t it. That is something to how a woman feels when she is out on the town and men are trying it on all night. When it is normal daytime and they are out and about around the shops they don’t feel threatened as they are in their environment. If a normal guy asks them a question they respond in a helpful manner and from there a skilled daygamer can quickly transition into generating interest. Day game is mostly just a matter of opening a conversation and nothing fancy.

So give it a try and you will be pleasantly supprised. You are no longer shackled to going to expensive clubs and bars. In fact you now have opportunities seven days a week. My most popular location is the shopping mall. You have shops, bars and coffee shops all in one undercover location. This is especially important in the UK as its always seems to be raining!

If you are interested in daygaming visit my free site www.silvafox.co.uk or check out my blog. You can contact me at silvafox99@hotmail.com and I will be happy to answer your questions

Talk to you soon Nathan

New actions always feel uncomfortable

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Mindset – New actions always feel uncomfortable

Whenever you undertake to learn a new skill you move out of your comfort zone. If you are new to this game maybe even thinking about approaching women in the daytime and sober makes you nervous. You will probably think that it is not normal and strange. This is because you have been programmed form an early age that you can only pick up women in bars and clubs. I was exactly the same never even entered my consciousness just how easy it is.
Now you have to realise that new behaviour patterns will always seem quite uncomfortable at first. This is because they will conflict with old and in grained behaviour patterns. However as you start to absorb theses new patterns and use them the feeling of being uncomfortable quickly diminishes. Until after a few weeks it feels like you have been doing it all your life.
The metaphor I always think about is it is like a new pair of shoes. You see them and like them. However when you first wear them it seems a little uncomfortable. So you just keep wearing them for short spell to start with until they finally bed in. However once they bed in you love them and you wear them all the time!
Meeting and attracting women in the daytime has so many advantages that I personally never even set foot in a club again. Never waste my time on Internet dating sites were the women promise so much and deliver so little.
If you are enjoying my blog and want to learn more about daygaming women please don’t hesitate to contact me. If you have any good friends that would benefit pass this on to them
Speak to you soon Nathan

Why women test us men

Why women test us men
A woman’s tests are just filters to sort out the bad guys from the good. They introduce them to get behind the front that most men put up. She will put the test out and watch your reaction to get a picture of the real you. They also observe you as to how you deal with third parties such as waiters and cabbies. The more time you spend infield meeting and attracting women the more you will recognise the patterns. Then once you recognise them act accordingly and as you have learnt the skill of attraction turn it to your advantage.
An example of a simple test in the opening stage is she will mention her boyfriend. Here is an example that has happened to me lots of times in the supermarket.
Me-"hey where do they keep the tinned tomatoes in this place"
Her-"its down the next aisle"
Me –"cheers they are always moving things round in here"
This is the basic under the radar opener I use before moving on to generate interest in her. However this is the point when most attractive woman realises you are trying to pick her up and automatically puts out a test. Really attractive women will assume this as soon as you attempt to open them. So always be prepared for immediate testing.
Her-"yes my boyfriend always struggles shopping"
There you have it she has consciously thrown out a simple test and is observing your reaction. Most guys fail by backing down or asking her about her boyfriend "are you and your boyfriend serious then". Thus confirming their lack of competence around women. My reaction is no reaction and I just respond with
Me "which is the best brand to use for casseroles then"
Sometimes as you get more experience in field you can see the disappointment on women’s faces when you have failed a test. This will happen less and less however the testing can be very subtle. Such as being late or cancelling at the last minute. Again deal with it by the default no reaction. Give yourself some time to think about your best plan by drawing on your experience. As you gain more experience and understand the logic behind the testing it really does get easy to come up with some easy counter measures. Also other men make it a lot easier as they just don’t have a clue!
If you have found this article useful then check out the free site I am building. http://www.silvafox.co.uk/. Dedicated to meeting and attracting women in the daytime. Pass it on to your good friends.
Talk to you soon Nathan