How to be more than just friends.

Just learn about dating tactics and get the results you dreamed of!

Hi guys

This is a very thorny subject and one I get asked for advice about a lot. A guy has a good female friend however he has hidden desires to turn the relationship sexual. By learning and applying our girl getting skills he is hoping to achieve this.
True dating tactics incorporates very powerful persuasion and influence techniques. If they where applied skilfully and competently they could turn the relationship around. However it is damned hard work and time consuming with no guarantee of success.

So the line we know follow at DT is forget about it as once you have learned these skills it is so much easier to use this on women you have just met and who will instantly want you sexually.
As for your female friend use her to gather information on women’s mindset and pre-selection when you take her out. An added bonus is she is bound to have single attractive girls in her social circle for you to hit on.

Most guys just don’t realize that this is a learnable skill this gives you the edge over guys who are younger, better looking and have money.


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Are You Actually Prepared For Success?

Hi guys

When I go out with my friends they are always trying to chase women but with very little success. When they do get a woman’s phone number they are overjoyed and then start deliberating what to do next.
Sometimes you think if a woman wanted a one-night stand there and then they would be in total shock. You see I really don’t think they are prepared for success as they are used to failure and only minor success.
Guys like us at Dating Tactics realise you have to have the logistics in place to seduce the woman.
When you start using the attraction skills that you will learn in a systemised way you will immediately start to get results far beyond the norm.
The typical guy I coach in his late 30’s has more women in a year than he has had all his life!

So when you go out are you trained and prepared for success?
Is your pad clean and women friendly? If you are out of town have you got a suitable hotel ready? Most important are you carrying condoms as nothing puts a woman off as a man who lacks confidence in his success

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Talk to you soon Nathan.

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Cutting Out The Attraction Killers-Its not always about doing the right things!

Hi guys

Just as we learn and practice the traits that arouse attraction in women it is just as important to learn what behaviors kill attraction.
Then by simply cutting out these behaviors you will get easy success.

Think about it from the dating science  ..It is one of the strongest natural processes for a man and women to get together. It is deeply ingrained into our subconscious as the survival of our species depends on it.
So we can just stop behaving in ways that kills the attraction and let nature take its course!

One of the biggest attraction killers is trying to buy a woman’s attraction. It ranges from offering to buy a woman a drink as an opener to spending money on lavish presents.
Even though loads of women will accept these freebies and it is even more regular in these modern times.
It is sending out the message that you know you aren’t attractive and have to buy attention.

Simply cut it out and if a woman says, “can you buy me a drink” just say “yes, after you have got the first ones in”

Remember when you need real results to get advice from real guys out their actually getting some!


Talk Soon Nathan

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Women Want What Others Have-If other women want you others will to.

Hi guys

When you have a girlfriend isn’t it strange how other women flirt and seem to want you. Then when your single and back on the market nada!

This is explained in dating science as pre-selection. Women subconsciously judge you to be mate material purely on the fact that other women want you.

How do we use this information to our advantage if we are single? Well never lie that you have a girlfriend use the female friend tactic and be vague.
Her perception that other women have you as a friend and being vague is very powerful. It will trigger her to want you.

Remember when you need real results to get advice from real guys out their actually getting some!


Talk Soon Nathan

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Do You Want To Have Your Choice With Women?

Hi guys
For years I was wrong and had been led down the wrong path. Even from an early age we as men are led to believe that if we work hard and be nice the right women will come along. We will get what we deserve.
This is a success killer mindset that unfortunately I had up to the age of 39. It wasn’t when I started to learn dating science and treat it as I would any other skill that I shattered this belief.
You don’t get what you think you deserve you get what you go and get.
By actively applying this skill it will bring you into contact with multiple woman allow you the opportunity to find a woman and lifestyle that suits you.
You are the chooser and have the options instead of the other way round. Miraculously when you have women in your life it attracts even more women .It puts you in an upward success spiral of happiness.
Most men don’t believe this even if you show them however you are switched on enough to realize that it is so easy to learn.
My biggest regret still is that I didn’t discover this when I was younger.

Remember just take the first step to commitment and you will never feel helpless with women again!

Talk to you soon Nathan
With support and real advice you will realize that you can achieve the success with women you desire. You can contact me in strict confidence at silvafox99@hotmail.com or telephone +447542614565.
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Realize- Saturday Is No Longer Your Only Chance To Pull.

Hi guys

I can remember just a few years back, I truly believed Saturday night in the clubs was the only place to meet women. We would go out in a big gang of guys all trying to out do each other in expensive clothes. Trying to buy women drinks in order to get their attention. Hey I even bought an expensive BMW as I thought it would improve my chances.

Since then I have learned that you can attract women everywhere and a nightclub is actually one of the worst places.

I still go out with the same group of friends and they still try their best in the nightclub. However I just relax and enjoy myself as this Saturday I have already got the phone number of a pretty young woman I met in the gym!
So tonight I will just go out have a drink and enjoy the night.

It really is so much easier this way, don’t you think?

Remember when you need real results to get advice from real guys out their actually getting some!

Talk to you soon Nathan
I invite you to join like-minded guys at our Facebook Group. With support and real advice you will realize that you can achieve the success with women you desire. You can contact me in strict confidence at silvafox99@hotmail.com or telephone +447542614565.
These are my personal contact details and not automated response sites so please be patient.

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Which Type of Guy are You?

Hi guys
here is a copy of an e-mail I received from Carlos Xuma ..it brings back memories from my distant past before I realized that attracting women is just a learnable skill. So I decided to share it with you.
Check it out and see what you think.

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2 kinds of Men by Carlos Xuma

There are two kinds of men in the world today, and I want you to meet them ... because you're probably one of them. Actually, you're probably both, to a degree, but you are definitely more one than the other. Each of these two guys is single, intelligent, and generally a 'nice' guy.

What they do have is widely disparate ATTITUDES toward life. Allow me illustrate:

Bob is just an average guy. He goes to work, comes home, eats dinner. He hangs out with friends at happy hour from time to time. He generally hopes that good things will happen to him.

But Bob is passive. He doesn't seek out ways to take charge and influence his world. Bob is too concerned with protecting his image of himself.

He goes out and meets women on occasion, but he finds the same pattern evolving: He meets a gal every once in a while, usually by luck. He'll ask and get her number from her. He'll call a day or two later, and usually get an answering machine. She never calls him back, and he ends up calling several times before he finally gets hold of her. She's usually polite, and he'll muster up the courage to ask for a date. She agrees, but when the day comes for them to meet up, she calls him and says she can't make it. Or she stands him up. Bob then looks at this as being yet another reason women are unreliable, and he starts to get self-righteous. He's doing everything right, and THEY are acting all weird. It must be them, he figures.

And his passivity increases. Why bother trying if you just get shot down every time?

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Dave on the other hand is average, too. But he rises above the average because of his attitude: Dave is active about his life. He takes the wheel of his life and steers it where he wants to go. He knows that if life isn't going the way he wants it, he has the power to make it happen himself.

He doesn't sit back expecting his abilities with women to succeed; he actively seeks out opportunities to try and learn from his interactions. When he fails in a seduction, he looks back on what he could do differently, not scared that making a mistake means he's unworthy as a man.

Dave understands that when a woman acts a certain way, it is usually something he could influence with his approach and attitude. While her rejections do not mean anything to his worth, he does know that he can change his approach and learn to decrease those rejections. The answer isn't finding just the right woman as it is understanding what parts of him he can develop and present to get more women interested.

Dave seeks out information and guidance to learn and improve. He doesn't let life happen TO him, he makes it happen.

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These two men demonstrate the kind of men who eventually get dates and get laid, or the ones that get stuck in the Downward Spiral, becoming more bitter and avoiding women.

The only man who isn't worthy of a woman is the one who isn't learning from his mistakes and trying again. He picks himself up, dusts himself off, and tries until he succeeds. He only fails when he fails to keep trying and learning from his attempts.

So which of these two would you rather be?

Notice, I didn't ask you which of them you ARE. All of us have elements of both men.

And it doesn't matter in the end, because I'm giving you an opportunity that other people will never offer you in life: You can stand at this crossroads and choose to settle for whatever results you're currently getting with women, or you can choose to take the path of action. You can learn and improve with your strategy and get more women.

Or ... Well, I think you know what lies down that road.

Don't be the man sitting in front of the wood stove who says "Give me heat first, and THEN I'll throw in the wood."

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If this strikes a chord then take action NOW...to improve your dating life!!
Let me show you how easy it really is ..NO MORE LONLEY NIGHTS

Talk to you soon Nathan

I invite you to join like-minded guys at our Facebook Group. With support and real advice you will realize that you can achieve the success with women you desire. You can contact me in strict confidence at silvafox99@hotmail.com or telephone +447542614565.
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Success killer with Women-Relying on passive game!

Hi guys.
You have the perfect tan, the toned body and a nice little sports car. However women smile at you and seem interested but they never make that first move. Why?
This is called passive game and I have posted this video by Paul Janka to let him explain.


Talk to you soon Nathan
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Monday Sucks!

Hi guys

Monday does suck and most people are on a downer after the weekend.
Until I started to study dating science I just presumed every women had had a cracking weekend.
However I realized that for a lot of women the weekend hadn’t lived up to her expectation leaving her disappointed.
Now on Monday she will carry this with her on top of the realization she has another boring week ahead of her.
Think about it and realize that is a prime state for you to burst into her life with your cheery repartee.
So shake off your Monday blues and take advantage.

Some pick up gurus will actually tell you not to bother on Monday?

If you want to learn properly through the proven power of mentoring then don’t hesitate do it NOW.
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Eliminate dwell and deliberation-just go for it and use your new skill

Hi guys

What you notice as you take the first step to getting more women into your life is that there are lots of opportunities. You have broadened your focus to look for them as you go about your day to day life. No longer like the other guys who just fail at the club on a Saturday night and then just wallow in desperation throughout the week.

However you have to grab the opportunity and it is a short time window. For example when you are in the checkout line with an attractive women in front of you. If you dwell on your opener and tactics you will blow it.

If you dwell and deliberate in your head the opportunities will be gone.

Have confidence that you already have more skill then 99% of other guys and GO FOR IT !-Just like us you will be amazed how easy it is when you have started to learn this skill !

If you want to learn through the proven power of mentoring then don’t hesitate do it NOW.
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Talk to you soon Nathan

Abundance mentality – there is plenty out there

Hi guys
Now you have realized that getting women into your life is just like any other skill and are taking steps to learn the skill. Lets talk about subjects that can limit your success.
One of the big things that will hold you back is “one itis” when you concentrate all your effort on one woman.
What you have to realize is there is an absolute abundance of women out there that are available. Time is your greatest asset so if you approach women and she isn’t too receptive or has too much baggage just move on.
Don’t try to figure her out and try to double guess her.
All that is out of your control and what you will soon discover it’s no problem to get another women that up for it.

Talk to you soon Nathan

Forget perfect planning......just get out there!

Forget perfect planning just get out there!

A lot of guys I know always put off going out and actually approaching women. They sit at home in front of the computer screen and study technique after technique. They buy and watch every dvd released and subscribe to every free newsletter going.
Why do they do this? Same reason I did when I first started to study game. We are searching for the perfect line or technique to guarantee us success or more importantly to prevent us from being rejected.
Now it is important to understand that attraction can be generated easily overriding a women’s normal criteria that she looks for in a man. This is crucial if you are broke, old and not good looking like me! Also it is important to have a gameplan similar to my tried and tested model however this is not a rigid science as there are far too many variables. The game is played in the moment and the best way to learn is to play it. Would you learn to play golf by study and never hit a ball then enter a tournament excepting to win? Then when you failed would you blame the book or the instructional dvd. However this is how a lot of men view their failings with women.
Start to alter your mindset and treat attracting women as a normal skill and approach it as you would if you were taking up a new sport. Sure you would read up about it but then go out and practice. You would expect to screw up a few times and see slow but gradual progress.
You would learn from your mistakes and correct them slowly. You would look back a few months down the line and congratulate yourself. Thinking how much you had improved. Failure is part of natural learning.
So get your gameplan together then get out this weekend and try out your material. Improve what works and discard what doesn’t. Don’t dwell on the failure dwell on the positives.
If you want to learn more about generating attraction in women from a man that has been through all the stages then get in touch.
After all would you take swimming lessons from a teacher who had never even been in the water!
All my teachings are from my experience of seven years in the game. My goal was always seduction at the minimum expense, as I don’t like spending my money on women I don’t even know!

Talk to you soon Nathan

What’s holding you back from success with women?

With me it was my age and looks. However as I have studied and learnt the skill of attraction I have discovered that most men have an excuse for their lack of success. Here are a few of the common ones I have come across:
Its my: height, age, income, body, nationality, teeth, looks, and hair.
This is an easy way to rationalise failure however once you except that attraction is an energy that can be created then start to learn and apply you will see remarkable results. Results that will have younger and better looking men staring in awe at you.
These men are playing to the conventional game. They waste time working out at the gym because they think big muscles attract women. Buying worthless "hair restoration" products to try and re-grow their hair because they think being bald hurts their success with women. Working at a job they hate because they think women are only attracted to successful guys with money.
But wait a minute! Look around you for evidence that this isn’t true. Next time you go out see how many hot women are with fat ugly blokes. We have all seen this and asked ourselves “how does he do it”. Well maybe they have realized that generating attraction is skill based.
If you want to learn how to improve your success with women then visit my Website now. Its totally free and contains techniques that work!!

Talk to you soon Nathan

Girls just want to have fun!

Girls just want to have fun!

I know this is going to sound very basic however the vast amount of guy’s miss this most important truth. Women just love men that laugh easily and don’t take themselves too seriously. Men that walk round with a happy disposition and a smile! Lots of guy’s walk around giving it the mean and moody seeming to hope that women will swoon over them. It works in the movies but here in the real world it just doesn’t cut it.
A few years ago a barman did a now famous survey where he asked women what they found most attractive in a man. Guess the outcome? Over 80% said it was a smile.
So when you go out this weekend instead of going out to pick up women just go out and enjoy yourself. Be happy just socialising and talking to your friends. Don’t be predatory like a lot of groups of guys I see just watching the doors to see what women come in. it is so obvious and women can sense it. Just go out this weekend and have some fun!!

Talk to you soon Nathan

making you’re move

Hey guys..
You know what its like when you have met a woman and the interaction is going well. You think she likes you and all of a sudden you are filled with hesitation on when to make you’re move.
All the possible scenarios run through you’re heads causing a temporary blip that she will notice. She notices this because she has seen it a thousand times before a man has made his move. It’s predictable and triggers her he’s going to ask me out pattern. Now this is fine if you’re young and good looking but if you’re not its going to create problems. If you are prepared and know what to say everything is smooth!
The way I have learnt to combat this is with a seamless transition into closing. Its is simple however it does require practice infield and most of all the correct mindset. If you attach to much meaning to the interaction you will probably blow it. You have to come from the mindset of abundance. Think about it, once you have learnt the skills you will have a never ending supply. Do you think you will come across as desperate then?
Women will pick up the vibe that your not desperate and it will generate lots of attraction. You will be different from the rest, as you are not desperate and needy. In some instances they will start to pursue you, as they will see you as a challenge.
How I accomplish this is to have my close in the “can” delivered in a natural its up to you tone. The only way to get this is to practice and be prepared to burn a few times! You can’t get these calibration skills any other way. Here is my number one for a seamless transition without triggering her pick up pattern alert!
“Hey its fun talking to you, lets go grab a coffee”.
Deliver this with the body language of a half turn as if you are going to walk away. You will be shocked at how easy a lot of women will just follow you when you display this confidence and authority.
Obviously you must have a coffee shop in mind but you have read my basic guide so you will have prepared for success??
Does that sound to easy for a man in his forties to get a young student out on an instant date for coffee. You know when I first started to learn these attraction skills I would have been sceptical but now I can do it easy!
Go on try it for yourself and let me know how it went. You can contact me at silvafox99@hotmail.com and maybe learn some more.
If you enjoy my articles why not pass it on to your good friends especially if they are struggling with the women.
Over winter I have set up a free website were I have hosted my free basic guide. There are no downloads as it is all there for instantly access. Check it out if you want to improve your success with women.

Talk to you soon Nathan.

New actions always feel uncomfortable

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Mindset – New actions always feel uncomfortable

Whenever you undertake to learn a new skill you move out of your comfort zone. If you are new to this game maybe even thinking about approaching women in the daytime and sober makes you nervous. You will probably think that it is not normal and strange. This is because you have been programmed form an early age that you can only pick up women in bars and clubs. I was exactly the same never even entered my consciousness just how easy it is.
Now you have to realise that new behaviour patterns will always seem quite uncomfortable at first. This is because they will conflict with old and in grained behaviour patterns. However as you start to absorb theses new patterns and use them the feeling of being uncomfortable quickly diminishes. Until after a few weeks it feels like you have been doing it all your life.
The metaphor I always think about is it is like a new pair of shoes. You see them and like them. However when you first wear them it seems a little uncomfortable. So you just keep wearing them for short spell to start with until they finally bed in. However once they bed in you love them and you wear them all the time!
Meeting and attracting women in the daytime has so many advantages that I personally never even set foot in a club again. Never waste my time on Internet dating sites were the women promise so much and deliver so little.
If you are enjoying my blog and want to learn more about daygaming women please don’t hesitate to contact me. If you have any good friends that would benefit pass this on to them
Speak to you soon Nathan