Wednesday, March 3, 2010

New actions always feel uncomfortable


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Mindset – New actions always feel uncomfortable

Whenever you undertake to learn a new skill you move out of your comfort zone. If you are new to this game maybe even thinking about approaching women in the daytime and sober makes you nervous. You will probably think that it is not normal and strange. This is because you have been programmed form an early age that you can only pick up women in bars and clubs. I was exactly the same never even entered my consciousness just how easy it is.
Now you have to realise that new behaviour patterns will always seem quite uncomfortable at first. This is because they will conflict with old and in grained behaviour patterns. However as you start to absorb theses new patterns and use them the feeling of being uncomfortable quickly diminishes. Until after a few weeks it feels like you have been doing it all your life.
The metaphor I always think about is it is like a new pair of shoes. You see them and like them. However when you first wear them it seems a little uncomfortable. So you just keep wearing them for short spell to start with until they finally bed in. However once they bed in you love them and you wear them all the time!
Meeting and attracting women in the daytime has so many advantages that I personally never even set foot in a club again. Never waste my time on Internet dating sites were the women promise so much and deliver so little.
If you are enjoying my blog and want to learn more about daygaming women please don’t hesitate to contact me. If you have any good friends that would benefit pass this on to them
Speak to you soon Nathan

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