Forget perfect planning......just get out there!

Forget perfect planning just get out there!

A lot of guys I know always put off going out and actually approaching women. They sit at home in front of the computer screen and study technique after technique. They buy and watch every dvd released and subscribe to every free newsletter going.
Why do they do this? Same reason I did when I first started to study game. We are searching for the perfect line or technique to guarantee us success or more importantly to prevent us from being rejected.
Now it is important to understand that attraction can be generated easily overriding a women’s normal criteria that she looks for in a man. This is crucial if you are broke, old and not good looking like me! Also it is important to have a gameplan similar to my tried and tested model however this is not a rigid science as there are far too many variables. The game is played in the moment and the best way to learn is to play it. Would you learn to play golf by study and never hit a ball then enter a tournament excepting to win? Then when you failed would you blame the book or the instructional dvd. However this is how a lot of men view their failings with women.
Start to alter your mindset and treat attracting women as a normal skill and approach it as you would if you were taking up a new sport. Sure you would read up about it but then go out and practice. You would expect to screw up a few times and see slow but gradual progress.
You would learn from your mistakes and correct them slowly. You would look back a few months down the line and congratulate yourself. Thinking how much you had improved. Failure is part of natural learning.
So get your gameplan together then get out this weekend and try out your material. Improve what works and discard what doesn’t. Don’t dwell on the failure dwell on the positives.
If you want to learn more about generating attraction in women from a man that has been through all the stages then get in touch.
After all would you take swimming lessons from a teacher who had never even been in the water!
All my teachings are from my experience of seven years in the game. My goal was always seduction at the minimum expense, as I don’t like spending my money on women I don’t even know!

Talk to you soon Nathan