Why do we need a system to meet and attract women?

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Hi guys

It has been scientifically proven that human courtship follows a logical and predictable sequence. This sequence is well known and if followed leads to an improved success rate. Therefore it is logical to attempt to design a system following the natural progression of human courtship. A system gives us the advantage of predictable results and confidence that we as men know what to do. We know the rules of the game and how to play. No system can be 100%. However by adapting a proven system and operating it consistently we are at a great advantage to other men who have no idea.
If we adapt conventional tactics of modern seduction we are in competition with these guys. We go head to head on money, looks and status. If you can compete good for you and in all fairness you probably don’t need my site. However I couldn’t play to those rules, as I wasn’t rich or good looking. So I studied for alternate and more successful ways. Hence my system and techniques evolved.
The system I know use has evolved over my seven years of studying and real world application of this subject .It is indirect and covert and to the woman seems totally natural.
I have tested hundreds of theories and followed advice from experts. Then I have adapted what has worked easily for me and disregarded the rest.
My major findings were any system has to be simple and automated. Natural and easy flowing. Any system that is to complicated slows the reaction time making you appear unnatural.
So everything I teach in my system is basic, relevant and field-tested. You have to study it then apply it in real life situations. Evaluate then re apply so eventually you will have your own personal system of success.

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The best way to get a woman into bed is texting-by Dr Belisa Vranich

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Hi guys

I am always on the look out for information to help us improve our game. Here is an interesting survey from the Metro about women’s response to texts by physiologist Dr Belisa Vranich.

“The messages create sexual anticipation and also give the false impression you have known each other for a longer amount of time”

This is obviously a good dating tactic to employ as it will speed things up and cost us next to nothing. If you would like to learn how to master the text game then just follow this link

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How to stop women flaking.

Hi guys

There is nothing more time wasting than flaky women. They don't return your calls or cancel dates at the last minute.
Life would be so much easier if you could get solid and committed closes.
The best way we have found of cutting flakiness is to arrange a meeting or date with her. Then get her phone number as this seems to reinforce the commitment to the point were she will see you again.
Even if this is only out of a sense of duty it will still give you a day two to work your magic.
Lets face it you should be able to close a day two with our skills

Remember when you need real results to get advice from real guys out their actually getting some!

Talk Soon Nathan

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Do you feel nervous when you approach women?

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Hi guys

Even though approaching and opening women is very simple most guys find it a major hurdle. This is what we term approach anxiety. However once they understand were the feelings come from and start actually approach they are really surprised that it is so easy. The bad and dramatic outcome they imagined or have seen in the films just does not happen in real life scenarios. Most normal women welcome a competent man who is different from the rest who just stare.
Approach anxiety is just a normal feeling that the body produces when we are taking any risk. It comes from the same part of the brain that activates when you get on a roller coaster or dive into a swimming pool. It will never go away completely and the easiest way to combat it is just accept it as normal. After all its just part of your human makeup.
So when you see desirable women just go up to her and open. If you understand the mechanics and have a system to work to it gives you an incredible advantage in any subject.

As most guys just don’t realize that this is a learnable skill this gives you the edge over guys who are younger, better looking and have money.


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Twos company but threes a crowd!

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Hi guys
Do you always notice that attractive women are rarely on their own. They are mostly in-groups and this always stops most guys in their tracks. When you learn with DT you will soon find that groups are in fact easier to approach than when a woman is on her own especially at night.

However over seven years and 5,000+ approaches there is one group that is hard to crack. In fact we don’t even bother as it always has complications.
You have probably guessed it is the pair. When two women are out on their own they will always stick with their mate and keep you under scrutiny.
Get out there and approach a few two sets. Then compare it to three and above groups.
What has been proved is that interactions always split into twos and threes. So when you join a three set it makes a group of four that will always split into two.
Now can you see where just a little knowledge and understanding of human behavioral science can give you such a huge advantage in the dating game.

As most guys just don’t realize that this is a learnable skill this gives you the edge over guys who are younger, better looking and have money.


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What Are Insignificant Others?

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Hi guys
Have you ever locked on to an attractive women and are contemplating approaching her only to abort because there are other people in the proximity?

These are what we at DT term insignificant others. Even when I had got my approach anxiety handled these would still hold me back.
What you imagine is that they will somehow get involved in the interaction. However in all my and many students experience this never happens.
Think about it ,you are letting people you neither know nor care about stop you from getting possible pleasure off an attractive woman!

Does that make sense?

Now you understand it logically just need to ignore them and pretend they don’t exist. The only reaction I have ever got from other guys in proximity is that they just stare in awe as I apply my skills. You know the “how the f**k does that guy do it” look.

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Forget the fancy pick up lines!

Do you think it’s the fancy line or the words you say that attracts a woman to you? Well not in the first instance, as the first thing she will register as you burst into her consciousness is all body language and voice tone. She will make a firm judgement of you in between 4 and 7 seconds according to the latest research. These first impressions will determine your success. So just remember the “you only get one chance to make a first impression is true.
Therefore at Dating Tactics we work on body language and voice tone first. We treat it with the respect it demands as the critical factor in achieving success.
So do some research and work on your body language. Record and analyze your voice (I know it’s painful) then work on slowly improving it.
Improving on these will boost your success without learning any content-based system. Also with the Internet info available it will not cost you a penny!

Try it out today .ask a woman for the time with good body language and voice tone. See how well she responds?

Talk to you soon Nathan
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Women are always checking you out!

Hi guys.
Do you feel that women don’t even look at you or show you any interest? I have discovered that they do and are very astute. However they do it covertly and are actually very good at doing it.
Once you realize this you see the importance of the basics of attraction. If women are formulating their feelings covertly they can only do this from visual and possibly audible observations. If you are interacting with another person she will be listening to your voice this reinforces that studies of human communication and human attraction run along the same lines.
Add to this that a woman formulates this opinion very quickly and you see that it is all about first impression, which is critical.
Recently I was working with a tall, young and good-looking guy. He couldn’t understand why women weren’t paying him any attention. I had him walk down the shopping mall while I filmed him covertly. When we examined the video he had his proof. Nearly every attractive girl checked him out as he walked by but very subtlety. This was only detectable from the third person view.
So the lesson is always maintain good body language, a smiling face and talk with good tonality at all times. You are being checked out!

Talk to you soon Nathan
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How to Start a Conversation with Attractive Women

Here is an e-mail from lance mason(founder of pick up 101) that explains the four basic openers he uses. Opening a conversation is critical to your success with women and in my experience it’s the hardest thing for most men to master.
This explanation is packed full of adaptable content for you!
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I have basically four types of openers that I use during the
day.

Of course, there is the Movie Moment Opener, which I
have written about previously.

It's by far the most powerful (and the simplest), but you've
really got to be on your game and "own it" for it to work.

Then there is my "backpocket" opener. This is a simple
tried and true opener that always works when I need to
whip it out of my back pocket - real quick like.

These openers can be VERY simple:

"Hey, what's up?" is a great opener for lot's of guys, for
example.

Or you can ask her for the time, for directions, or for a
simple piece of advice to get her to stop and talk to you.

These quick "Backpocket" openers all work the same way,
just use one you like.

The trick with the Backpocket openers is to make sure you
follow up with a quick banter line to spice up the
conversation.

Then there is my "Tried and True" openers: These are for
the situations I find my self in every day like the gym, the
supermarket, the sidewalk, etc.

Since I'm in those environments a lot, over time I've
developed specific ways to start conversations in these
environments so I can "Join in the conversation in her
head."

That means she will be in her most receptive state - She
was thinking about what you are talking about already, so
she will find it easy to absorb what you have to say.

You didn't interrupt her and start a conversation, you just
joined in and made it a lot more fun.

Big difference.

Finally we have the "Situational Opener" - which is
basically just relaxing and making something up on the
spot as if you were talking to a friend.

I call it a situational opener, because when I do it I usually
end up saying something about the situation we are in.

Maybe we are in a line at the airport, sitting down at the
DMV, or at a U2 concert. These are situations that occupy
our mind when we are in them, and if we want to join the
conversation in her mind then it's best if we talk about
them - right from the beginning.

For example,

"Situational Openers" are my favorite, because it is by far
the most natural and simple way to start a conversation.

That means you are at your best.

They also relate to a situation that is fairly unique, at least
for you... so you are generally more enthusiastic about
what you are talking about.

That means you're trying something new, which means you
are even better.

At it's absolute best you go up to women having absolutely
NO idea what you are going to say to them, but with
complete confidence the answer will come to when you
need it.

It's as if you know, almost by magic, that the perfect thing
will come out of your mouth at the perfect time.

This may sound like something you can't do consistently,
but the truth is in workshops every guy finds themselves
doing exactly that with no problem.

If you're in the right state, anyone can do it consistently.

The PROBLEM with situational openers is that if you
aren't in the BEST possible state you might find this hard to do
- I know I did for several years when I was getting started.

Here is an e-mail I recieved from Adam Lyons that is packed full of adaptable content!

if you have any questions regarding this e-mail please dont hesitate to ask me at silvafox99@hotmail.com.-Nathan

This email is about an area of much confusion, yet an area of much significance. Going Direct.

What sets the really successful people apart from those that just fluff their way through relationships is the art of being direct. There are many myths and a lot of nonsense surrounding the direct approach. You may want to print out and keep this email - because in my continuing efforts to help you improve your love life - I am about to share the essentials of going direct that you really should know. I would be surprised if the contents of this email did not translate to a significant difference to your dating life over the next year - if you apply all the principles we are going to cover. (By the way, if you're totally new to the subject of going direct it simply refers to the art of stating your intentions truthfully to someone, no matter what they are and dealing with the results.)

First, lets dispel some of the myths about going direct. My favourite myth is 'the direct approach doesn't work.' This ingenious conclusion is arrived at by the fact that you and I know that most people brush off direct approaches from random strangers all the time. The truth is that whilst a high proportion may walk away from a complete random stranger a good proportion will at least listen to what you initially say. If you have enough qualities of attraction right from the start then the confidence you show by approaching someone directly can often be enough to swing things into your favour, at least to the point that you will have their attention.

Now at this I can hear a number of people thinking to themselves, (girls esspecially) that they would come across as "easy." However, that isn't necessarily the case. It's all based on what you say when you do approach someone.

When done correctly there is almost nothing as beautiful as telling someone exactly what you think about them and having them return that thought with a positive response, as essentially you have just given them a massive compliment. Though it is important to understand what it is ok to compliment on. Compliments are covered quite extensively in the Personal Study Course so I won't go over them again here. However, it is important to understand that a compliment should only ever be given on something that is earned. i.e. something someone has taken time over acheiving, and not something they are graced with naturally.

After alot of experimentation I've found something that I find works particulalry well. Feel free to change it or come up with your own, as it's often better to tailor phrases to your own style. Remember, it is important to understand what each of the phrases represents, and why they're included.


"Hey, I'm so sorry to bother you. I'm on my way to meet a few friends but you look really interesting. On top of that, you have a pretty friendly face for someone in the city, so I knew I'd be kicking myself all day if I didn't take the time to say hi.

So, hi, I'm Adam"

Now there's a lot in that.

lets break it down piece by piece;

"Hey, I'm so sorry to bother you, - Being polite is important, it starts things off on a good foot without being rude, and also gives them a reason to pause and listen further. Who knows, maybe you're lost and seeking directions.

I'm on my way to meet a few friends - This does two things. Mentioning friends shows that you're a sociable person, so therefore are unlikely to be too weird, at least not so weird that you don't have friends. Secondly, it drags out the conversation a little bit more, to ensure they're standing still ready for the rest.

but, - If used with a pause it creates anticipation, as the word "but" removes the meaning behind everything spoken previously. It says you actually aren't sorry for approaching and did approach them on purpose.

you look really interesting - Here we have an ambiguous compliment. It is nothing to get too big headed about, and in fact is more likely to generate a lot of questions from them as they wonder what exactly is interesting about them. We all love to hear about ourselves.

On top of that have a pretty friendly face for someone in the city -This really is powerful. Who could possibly resist being nice to someone who told them they looked friendly? It's very rare for us not to live up to positive statements made with reference to us. So if nothing else, they are likely to respond positively to you.

so I knew I'd be kicking myself all day if I didn't take the time to say hi. - This gives a justification for the whole interaction and explains why you actually did the approach. Otherwise it is almost guaranteed that the first response would be them asking why you're talking to them.

So, hi, I'm Adam" - This gets things going for the rest of the interaction.

Going direct is an art and science in itself - and you may want to practice many different ways of doing it. There are some fundamentals which you will want to follow. Here are four of them to keep you going:


1) Remember to have as many qualities of attraction as possible. If you aren't congruent with an attractive person, then it won't work as well. Imagine being approached by someone lacking confidence. It just wouldn't inspire you to talk to them.

2) Don't be afraid to keep going after a failed approach, this is essentially a numbers game until you get comfortable with it. Remember it's only weird if you genuinely try and date everyone you meet. There is nothing wrong with meeting new people as friends. Re-read the phrase above, you'll see it works just as well as a tool to meet new people.

3) Always smile- it will significantly increase the positive response rate.

4) Make sure you follow up the initial meeting with a text instantly! It will capture the moment and make it last a lot longer, it will have a greater impact this way.

Seven Day Game Tips

Here is good advice sent to me from the guys at lovesystems

Seven Day Game Tips You Can Use Right Now

1. Usually people have stuff to do during the day - unlike at a bar, where she can spend hours with you. Good Day Game approaches usually lead to phone numbers + dates as opposed to going straight to the bedroom.

2. Forget almost everything you know about touching ("kino") and the Physical Progression Model. Being "touchy" and escalating is GREAT at a bar or club. During the day, in public, in bright light, it can seem creepy. Stop at "social touch" and save the rest for your date.

3. Try "going direct." She knows you're hitting on her anyway - people don't approach random strangers during the day unless they want something - so why not get the credit for having confidence? In this video you can see Jeremy Soul approach a woman on the street with "I'm Jeremy... you have an adorable look to you," and then start some quick storytelling to capture her attention. Watch the video here:

>> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=njDfgsTqUFE

4. High-energy routines are often out of place during the day. They're also unnecessary. At a cafe, you're not competing with a million flashing lights, club music, and millions of other guys. So, tone everything down a few notches.

5. Most of the time, you're not going to have a wingman or alcohol in Day Game to help "push" you to approach. If you have "Approach Anxiety," reward yourself for every time you approach without hesitating. This is how you build habits and "muscle memory."

(Start listening to the Approach Anxiety interview here - but don't buy it. I'll explain why in a moment.)

6. Smile - it's even more important in the daytime. At a club, the guy who doesn't smile and approaches her is nervous. On a street corner, the guy who doesn't smile and approaches makes HER nervous.

7. Having good phone and text game is CRUCIAL if you want to be good at Day Game. Since even the best Day Game approaches often result in a phone number + date (since people have real time constraints during the day), you need to be good at converting phone numbers into dates.

time for your spring offensive!

Hi guys

Well it looks like spring is finally here in the UK with the start of Easter. All of my posts from now on will be based on my actual infield experience and less on theory. I love it when the nights draw out and the general mood starts to improve. More importantly it is coming to the natural mating season and women will be subconsciously looking for a suitable mate. This all makes it so much easier for men who have realised that attraction is just a skill and have had the intelligence to learn it. We don’t even have to be that good, as most guys haven’t got a clue they just think it is a mystic gift and rely on chance. If you want to learn more or have any questions please contact me on silvafox99@hotmail.com .
Any way yesterday I played around with my just talk technique. It’s a direct approach were you just talk to the person as you would an old friend. To emphasise again the need for a strong base it is all about the body language and voice confidence. My mindset for this approach is I am talking to my younger sister with humour and gentle authority. Did two approaches and it worked fantastic and the women just opened naturally. All my approaches are based on daygame which for me is the only game in town!! I hate spending money in expensive clubs and having to be up late. Isn’t it so much easier to pick up women throughout your day and get them straight back to your place?
Go out today and instead of rehearsing complex openers just try it. The opener is just a tool to focus attention on to you therefore if it’s to complex they focus on the opener!
Anyway get off the computer today its Saturday and there will be opportunities everywhere. Try the just talk approach and let me know how it went.
Give me your feedback and if you think a friend would benefit from learning this skill tell him about it.


Talk to you soon Nathan

Going out alone

If you have to go out on your own to a club it takes a lot of determination as it is not a pleasant experience. There is a lot of competition and when you are on your own it is quite intimidating. The are going to be no women on their own as they will all be with friends and its expensive. Women can sense you are on your own and can be friendly with you just to get drinks. There is a easier and cheaper way!
The easiest thing to do if you have no one to go out with is daygame. It’s not weird to be on your own and a lot of women will be shopping by themselves. After shopping there are coffee shops and pubs attached to most shopping centres were it is quite expectable to call in for a quick drink. Women will go to these after shopping and as they are not in a pick up location their defences are low. They will chat easily as they feel safe and relaxed as it is in the afternoon. Contrast this to late at night around the clubs when there are gangs of men out drinking and you can understand why they feel safe. There is very little competition if any at all as most men don’t think it is possible to pick up women in the daytime.
So shift your effort to approaching and attracting women in the daytime. Its in expensive and you have opportunities 24/7

Talk to you soon Nathan

Day game is so easy!

About four years I was fortunate when a friend actually demonstrated a pick up in a supermarket for me. I never realized how easy it actually was and was still a little apprehensive when I first tried it. It went so well that I couldn’t believe it. Ever since then I have concentrated on day game and stopped going to expensive clubs.

When women are out shopping they are comfortable and relaxed. Compare this to when they are out in bars constantly being ogled by desperate men. Men who are drunk approach them with lust written all over their faces. Think how you feel when you go in a rowdy bar were there are big gangs of drunken men. Makes you feel kind of edgy doesn’t it. That is something to how a woman feels when she is out on the town and men are trying it on all night. When it is normal daytime and they are out and about around the shops they don’t feel threatened as they are in their environment. If a normal guy asks them a question they respond in a helpful manner and from there a skilled daygamer can quickly transition into generating interest. Day game is mostly just a matter of opening a conversation and nothing fancy.

So give it a try and you will be pleasantly supprised. You are no longer shackled to going to expensive clubs and bars. In fact you now have opportunities seven days a week. My most popular location is the shopping mall. You have shops, bars and coffee shops all in one undercover location. This is especially important in the UK as its always seems to be raining!

If you are interested in daygaming visit my free site www.silvafox.co.uk or check out my blog. You can contact me at silvafox99@hotmail.com and I will be happy to answer your questions

Talk to you soon Nathan

Why women test us men

Why women test us men
A woman’s tests are just filters to sort out the bad guys from the good. They introduce them to get behind the front that most men put up. She will put the test out and watch your reaction to get a picture of the real you. They also observe you as to how you deal with third parties such as waiters and cabbies. The more time you spend infield meeting and attracting women the more you will recognise the patterns. Then once you recognise them act accordingly and as you have learnt the skill of attraction turn it to your advantage.
An example of a simple test in the opening stage is she will mention her boyfriend. Here is an example that has happened to me lots of times in the supermarket.
Me-"hey where do they keep the tinned tomatoes in this place"
Her-"its down the next aisle"
Me –"cheers they are always moving things round in here"
This is the basic under the radar opener I use before moving on to generate interest in her. However this is the point when most attractive woman realises you are trying to pick her up and automatically puts out a test. Really attractive women will assume this as soon as you attempt to open them. So always be prepared for immediate testing.
Her-"yes my boyfriend always struggles shopping"
There you have it she has consciously thrown out a simple test and is observing your reaction. Most guys fail by backing down or asking her about her boyfriend "are you and your boyfriend serious then". Thus confirming their lack of competence around women. My reaction is no reaction and I just respond with
Me "which is the best brand to use for casseroles then"
Sometimes as you get more experience in field you can see the disappointment on women’s faces when you have failed a test. This will happen less and less however the testing can be very subtle. Such as being late or cancelling at the last minute. Again deal with it by the default no reaction. Give yourself some time to think about your best plan by drawing on your experience. As you gain more experience and understand the logic behind the testing it really does get easy to come up with some easy counter measures. Also other men make it a lot easier as they just don’t have a clue!
If you have found this article useful then check out the free site I am building. http://www.silvafox.co.uk/. Dedicated to meeting and attracting women in the daytime. Pass it on to your good friends.
Talk to you soon Nathan

meeting women in the daytime.

Day gaming
Why do I only concentrate on approaching and attracting women at non-pick up locations?
Quite simply it is so flexible as you have a seven-day a week venue. No more pining all your hopes on Saturday night. That mostly ends in disappointment and always-major expense!
You can just carry on with your normal life approaching and attracting women as you please.
When you first start day gaming it will seem a little unnatural as up until recently you have been lead to believe that it wasn't possible.
The beauty is that if you have a friendly interaction with a woman in the daytime and it doesn't develop into a close you may still bump into her when you're out again.
She will remember you whereas if she were in a club she wouldn't, as she would be drunk!
Also you are sober and it is daylight you can see what the women actually look like.
So persevere through that feeling of discomfort and get into approaching and attracting women in the daytime
After a few weeks you need never set foot in the club again.
Nathan Davies