Somtimes things just aren't going your way...by vin decarlo

If you roll a dice, you've got an
even shot at getting a 1 or a 6.
But... sometimes... snake-eyes
roll up, time and time again.

Same thing goes with women.

Sometimes you've got a few days,
a few weeks, a few months, a few
years... where the number of women
in your life is much LOWER than
you'd like.

That's called a "dry spell" because
your "privates"... well... You
get the picture ;-)

But the truth is - A dry spell can be
more damaging than you think, in
the long run.

You could:

-> Get stuck in your ways. Momentum
is rough. If you're used to nights alone,
watching movies with buddies...

... well...

... It's gonna feel "weird" when you're
out with a woman.

-> "Forget" what sex feels like. And why
would you work towards a goal you forgot?
Proper motivation is CRUCIAL to getting
shit done...

... and...

... Unless you've got a clear picture
of what you want, it's tougher and
tougher to get it.

-> Become bitter. This is the biggest
trap of all. After beng "denied" something
for a long time...

... well...

... You get bitter at the people keeping
it from you.

Women.

And the BIGGEST mistake men make
when they talk to women is secretly
harboring JEALOUSY, ENVY, HATE or
FEAR about sex and sexuality.

It's an INSTANT turn off.

So... in this email... We're gonna talk
about how to kick a dry spell's ass.
And specfically, you're gonna
find out how to:

* GET A DATE, EVERY WEEK -
The one "line" you MUST say,
to make weekly dates a "sure
thing"...

* MEET WOMEN HERE - A great
place to meet fun, sexual women...

* 3 WAYS TO END A DRY SPELL -
Follow this 3-step system and
you'll end your dry spell, in under
a month (or be well on your
way...)

... And hopefully, you'll get some
great tips to use, starting today.
(or you can save them for the
future)

Most importantly - I want to help
you feel GOOD about your sex
life, however it is.

Whether you've got great success,
or it's been awhile.

Because the most crucial element
you NEED in life to be happy, to be
relaxed and to attract women is to
feel OK with the person you are.

Whether you're successful...

Whether you're confident...

Whether you're getting laid...

... Or not.

Women can smell it on you
from miles away. It's like a
cologne that atracts her... or...
Makes her cover her nose.

(Researchers have tried to call
it "pheromones" - but it's not! It's
simply a combination of body
language, voice tonality and
the decisions you make.

(ie. it's all the stuff you can't
control CONSCIOUSLY coming
together to tell women whether
you're an attractive man - or not)

Now, we could spend all day
talking about how to "pretend"
you're successful with women -
even when you're on a dry spell...

... but...

... Fuck it. Let's just break you
out of that bad boy. (Or give you
a guide to use, next time you
"slip up")

Really, getting out of a dry spell
is SIMPLE. Here's exactly what
you need to know:

***********************************
HOW TO BREAK A DRY SPELL,
STEP - BY - STEP:
***********************************

WARNING: This isn't "easy" stuff.

It's simple - by that I mean you only
need to remember three things.
You only need to DO three things.

But... You need to DO these three
things. You can't "pretend" to do
them. You can't "rehearse" them
in your head.

You gotta be out there, doin' it.

And if you are - You WILL break
your dry spell in a month or less.
I can practically promise this.

Even better than that - Once you
build your initial "momentum",
you can keep using these
three steps to build a bigger,
better sex life.

To go from one woman, to two
women, to three women or
more. To girlfriends, to one
night stands, to dating your
friends...

... Whatever.

Here's exactly what you need
to know:

*** STEP ONE - Talk to a new woman,
every day.

This is easiest done in a city... but...
You can find a woman on your
daily commute.

Or... By stopping by a coffee shop
on your lunch break...

Or... By joining a few "after work"
social clubs....

Or... By going to a NEW bar or club,
every weekend you go out...

There are NO excuses for not
talking to one new woman per
day.

Best part of this is - You don't
need to succeed. SImply building
the EXPERIENCE of talking to
women.. and... Building the
HABIT of talking to one new
woman per day is all you're
looking for, right now.

What should you say? Don't make
it hard! Try saying "Hi" for starters.
Tell her how beautiful she is, for
the next step.

Then move onto regular conversation.
Ask her questions about work. Tell
her stories from your life.

Laugh.

Have fun.

Relax.

Conversations should be easy
and fun. When they ARE, women
give up the digits in record speed.

(and are secretely eager for you
to call...)

*** STEP TWO: Go on dates,
with women.

Seems like a simplistic idea,
doesn't it? But if you're in a dry
spell, it's likely you've given up.

Or you're not dating enough.

Whatever the case, you need
to schedule out time to meet
and date women.

This means going on one
date, per week... (maybe
per month, to start)

And there are TONS of
benefits to an active dating
life:

* You get used to having
women in your life...

* You get used to having
FUN with the women in
your life...

* You get used to - and
less stressed out about -
going on dates with women...

Overall - You're going to be
happier, more relaxed and
more at ease around women.

Which will turn her on, big time.

How do you get these dates?
It's really simple:

You want to try when you first
get her number. Say this:

"Hey - Ive got a crazy idea.
Let's go get coffee, right now"

Then, you have - in my experience -
a 10-25% chance of going on an
"instant date."

Which is HIGHLY romantic, to
her.

And if she says no, you get her
phone number, and then
schedule a coffee date for
later in the week.

It's like you have an excuse to
hang out, built in. Which makes
her saying "no" practically out
of the question.

You're main goal when hanging
out, when texting, when talking...
Is to have FUN and be PLAYFUL
with the woman you're with.

Do that - And you'll have no
problem getting dates with
the women you meet.

(Even if you screw up at the
start. Rememeber - We're
playing a long term game,
here)

*** STEP THREE: Push your
limits.

Here's how you'll go from your
dry spell to your wet spell ;-)

You want to push your limits,
at every stage of the interaction.
So you never get stuck in
habits or ruts.

You want to go for the phone
number with EVERY woman
you talk to...

You want to go on dates DESIGNED
to end back at your place (we talk
about this a lot more in other news-
letter issues... and, of course...
The Attraction Code)...

You want to touch, to flirt, to
compliment, to tease, to push,
to pull... to do EVERYTHING
SEXUAL more than you're
used to.

You want to be 10% uncomfortable
at all times.

If you can do that, you'll break your
dry spell in record time. And if you
KEEP being 10% out of your
comfort zone, you'll be INCREDIBLY
successful with women, in no
time.

You'll turn that 10% lack of comfort
into a 10% gain of skill. And these
10% monthly "investments" into
your game will have the biggest
returns you can possibly imagine.

Want proof? Try those three tips
for just one month.

If you're not either OUT of your
dry spell or CLOSER to success
than you've been in the last
6 months...

... Well then damnit, Skippy,
you need to read more newsletters.
Cuz you're screwin' something up ;-)

(but I've got faith in you)

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
A STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE TO
BREAKING YOUR DRY SPELL:

What I managed to fit into today's
newsletter is everything you'll need
to break out of your dry spell.

Save this email for a future date.
I promise it will come in handy.

When you're ready to take action
and put "dry spells" in your rear
vew mirror forever, you should
take a look at The Attraction Code.

You may not know this but, The
Code was written to break a friend
of mine out of a dry spell. That's why
the "Patrick Stories" start with him
in such a bad situation.

If you follow the advice in this book,
step by step, I can promise you'll
see success with women. And
I put my money where my mouth
is. Check it out, here:

http://www.attractioncodebook.com/go/EndYourDrySpell

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

**** THINGS TO DO, TODAY: ****

1) TALK TO ONE WOMAN - Meet her
where ever you wish. One of my fav
places: Anywhere with live music.

The women at live concerts tend to
be super fun - and highly sexual.

2) GO ON A DATE, THIS WEEK -
Easier said than done, right? Wrong.
Just use the coffee date we talked
about :-)

(and remember - it's OK to screw up
now and then... I STILL get turned
down for dates every once in awhile)

3) PUSH YOUR LIMITS - Go 10%
outside of your comfort zone. Because
those 10% gains translate to 10%
increases in your "game" with women.

10% * 10% * 10% * 10% = 146%

That means getting 46% better with
women, every 4 weeks. Which is like
going on 2 dates per month, instead
of just one. And eventually going
on 10 dates per month, instead
of just 7.

Then every month, you boost your
success another 46%. This is all
just theoretical math.. but... In my
experience, it's what happens.

Once you start geting good success,
it snowbals bigger and bigger.

... Before you know it, you're a
master with women :-)

And I can't wait to see that day.
You better send me an email!

Until then, I'll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

- VIn