"it's not the good plays you make, it's the bad plays you don't make that allow you to win."

Here is a post I received that bring home the importance of treating learning the skill of attraction as a game!

By j alanis

During my time learning attraction I've probably had every negative
thing in the world with women happen to me--once. Early on it
happened more than once, but once I discovered attraction was a
learnable skill, I never made the same mistake twice.

When he coached the Dallas Cowboys, Jimmy Johnson had a saying
about winning: "it's not the good plays you make, it's the bad
plays you don't make that allow you to win." He's absolutely
right, and the same thing applies to attraction.

There are two ways to learn bad plays not to make: 1) from the
experience of others and 2) from the dumb things you do while
learning the skill.

Both are effective, obviously, but #2 is the most memorable. How
you respond to "negative feedback" determines your future positive
success.


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The man who will eventually be successful notes what he did, finds
out where he went wrong, and modifies his behavior in the future.
The man who fails quits at the first sign of adversity and wiles
away the hours bitterly complaining about how unfair it all is.

That's why refunders are never, ever successful with women.
Instead of learning from their mistakes like doers do, they take
the easy way out, say "it didn't work for me" and wonder why other
men succeed when they fail.

If you want to learn and master a skill, the only way to do so is
by taking action and learning from the feedback. The skill of
attraction is different for every man, and every man has to
discover his own groove.

You cannot avoid the negative feedback and in fact, you should
embrace it. It's the only way to learn a skill most men are too
fragile to learn.
On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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