Somtimes things just aren't going your way...by vin decarlo

If you roll a dice, you've got an
even shot at getting a 1 or a 6.
But... sometimes... snake-eyes
roll up, time and time again.

Same thing goes with women.

Sometimes you've got a few days,
a few weeks, a few months, a few
years... where the number of women
in your life is much LOWER than
you'd like.

That's called a "dry spell" because
your "privates"... well... You
get the picture ;-)

But the truth is - A dry spell can be
more damaging than you think, in
the long run.

You could:

-> Get stuck in your ways. Momentum
is rough. If you're used to nights alone,
watching movies with buddies...

... well...

... It's gonna feel "weird" when you're
out with a woman.

-> "Forget" what sex feels like. And why
would you work towards a goal you forgot?
Proper motivation is CRUCIAL to getting
shit done...

... and...

... Unless you've got a clear picture
of what you want, it's tougher and
tougher to get it.

-> Become bitter. This is the biggest
trap of all. After beng "denied" something
for a long time...

... well...

... You get bitter at the people keeping
it from you.

Women.

And the BIGGEST mistake men make
when they talk to women is secretly
harboring JEALOUSY, ENVY, HATE or
FEAR about sex and sexuality.

It's an INSTANT turn off.

So... in this email... We're gonna talk
about how to kick a dry spell's ass.
And specfically, you're gonna
find out how to:

* GET A DATE, EVERY WEEK -
The one "line" you MUST say,
to make weekly dates a "sure
thing"...

* MEET WOMEN HERE - A great
place to meet fun, sexual women...

* 3 WAYS TO END A DRY SPELL -
Follow this 3-step system and
you'll end your dry spell, in under
a month (or be well on your
way...)

... And hopefully, you'll get some
great tips to use, starting today.
(or you can save them for the
future)

Most importantly - I want to help
you feel GOOD about your sex
life, however it is.

Whether you've got great success,
or it's been awhile.

Because the most crucial element
you NEED in life to be happy, to be
relaxed and to attract women is to
feel OK with the person you are.

Whether you're successful...

Whether you're confident...

Whether you're getting laid...

... Or not.

Women can smell it on you
from miles away. It's like a
cologne that atracts her... or...
Makes her cover her nose.

(Researchers have tried to call
it "pheromones" - but it's not! It's
simply a combination of body
language, voice tonality and
the decisions you make.

(ie. it's all the stuff you can't
control CONSCIOUSLY coming
together to tell women whether
you're an attractive man - or not)

Now, we could spend all day
talking about how to "pretend"
you're successful with women -
even when you're on a dry spell...

... but...

... Fuck it. Let's just break you
out of that bad boy. (Or give you
a guide to use, next time you
"slip up")

Really, getting out of a dry spell
is SIMPLE. Here's exactly what
you need to know:

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HOW TO BREAK A DRY SPELL,
STEP - BY - STEP:
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WARNING: This isn't "easy" stuff.

It's simple - by that I mean you only
need to remember three things.
You only need to DO three things.

But... You need to DO these three
things. You can't "pretend" to do
them. You can't "rehearse" them
in your head.

You gotta be out there, doin' it.

And if you are - You WILL break
your dry spell in a month or less.
I can practically promise this.

Even better than that - Once you
build your initial "momentum",
you can keep using these
three steps to build a bigger,
better sex life.

To go from one woman, to two
women, to three women or
more. To girlfriends, to one
night stands, to dating your
friends...

... Whatever.

Here's exactly what you need
to know:

*** STEP ONE - Talk to a new woman,
every day.

This is easiest done in a city... but...
You can find a woman on your
daily commute.

Or... By stopping by a coffee shop
on your lunch break...

Or... By joining a few "after work"
social clubs....

Or... By going to a NEW bar or club,
every weekend you go out...

There are NO excuses for not
talking to one new woman per
day.

Best part of this is - You don't
need to succeed. SImply building
the EXPERIENCE of talking to
women.. and... Building the
HABIT of talking to one new
woman per day is all you're
looking for, right now.

What should you say? Don't make
it hard! Try saying "Hi" for starters.
Tell her how beautiful she is, for
the next step.

Then move onto regular conversation.
Ask her questions about work. Tell
her stories from your life.

Laugh.

Have fun.

Relax.

Conversations should be easy
and fun. When they ARE, women
give up the digits in record speed.

(and are secretely eager for you
to call...)

*** STEP TWO: Go on dates,
with women.

Seems like a simplistic idea,
doesn't it? But if you're in a dry
spell, it's likely you've given up.

Or you're not dating enough.

Whatever the case, you need
to schedule out time to meet
and date women.

This means going on one
date, per week... (maybe
per month, to start)

And there are TONS of
benefits to an active dating
life:

* You get used to having
women in your life...

* You get used to having
FUN with the women in
your life...

* You get used to - and
less stressed out about -
going on dates with women...

Overall - You're going to be
happier, more relaxed and
more at ease around women.

Which will turn her on, big time.

How do you get these dates?
It's really simple:

You want to try when you first
get her number. Say this:

"Hey - Ive got a crazy idea.
Let's go get coffee, right now"

Then, you have - in my experience -
a 10-25% chance of going on an
"instant date."

Which is HIGHLY romantic, to
her.

And if she says no, you get her
phone number, and then
schedule a coffee date for
later in the week.

It's like you have an excuse to
hang out, built in. Which makes
her saying "no" practically out
of the question.

You're main goal when hanging
out, when texting, when talking...
Is to have FUN and be PLAYFUL
with the woman you're with.

Do that - And you'll have no
problem getting dates with
the women you meet.

(Even if you screw up at the
start. Rememeber - We're
playing a long term game,
here)

*** STEP THREE: Push your
limits.

Here's how you'll go from your
dry spell to your wet spell ;-)

You want to push your limits,
at every stage of the interaction.
So you never get stuck in
habits or ruts.

You want to go for the phone
number with EVERY woman
you talk to...

You want to go on dates DESIGNED
to end back at your place (we talk
about this a lot more in other news-
letter issues... and, of course...
The Attraction Code)...

You want to touch, to flirt, to
compliment, to tease, to push,
to pull... to do EVERYTHING
SEXUAL more than you're
used to.

You want to be 10% uncomfortable
at all times.

If you can do that, you'll break your
dry spell in record time. And if you
KEEP being 10% out of your
comfort zone, you'll be INCREDIBLY
successful with women, in no
time.

You'll turn that 10% lack of comfort
into a 10% gain of skill. And these
10% monthly "investments" into
your game will have the biggest
returns you can possibly imagine.

Want proof? Try those three tips
for just one month.

If you're not either OUT of your
dry spell or CLOSER to success
than you've been in the last
6 months...

... Well then damnit, Skippy,
you need to read more newsletters.
Cuz you're screwin' something up ;-)

(but I've got faith in you)

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
A STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE TO
BREAKING YOUR DRY SPELL:

What I managed to fit into today's
newsletter is everything you'll need
to break out of your dry spell.

Save this email for a future date.
I promise it will come in handy.

When you're ready to take action
and put "dry spells" in your rear
vew mirror forever, you should
take a look at The Attraction Code.

You may not know this but, The
Code was written to break a friend
of mine out of a dry spell. That's why
the "Patrick Stories" start with him
in such a bad situation.

If you follow the advice in this book,
step by step, I can promise you'll
see success with women. And
I put my money where my mouth
is. Check it out, here:

http://www.attractioncodebook.com/go/EndYourDrySpell

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**** THINGS TO DO, TODAY: ****

1) TALK TO ONE WOMAN - Meet her
where ever you wish. One of my fav
places: Anywhere with live music.

The women at live concerts tend to
be super fun - and highly sexual.

2) GO ON A DATE, THIS WEEK -
Easier said than done, right? Wrong.
Just use the coffee date we talked
about :-)

(and remember - it's OK to screw up
now and then... I STILL get turned
down for dates every once in awhile)

3) PUSH YOUR LIMITS - Go 10%
outside of your comfort zone. Because
those 10% gains translate to 10%
increases in your "game" with women.

10% * 10% * 10% * 10% = 146%

That means getting 46% better with
women, every 4 weeks. Which is like
going on 2 dates per month, instead
of just one. And eventually going
on 10 dates per month, instead
of just 7.

Then every month, you boost your
success another 46%. This is all
just theoretical math.. but... In my
experience, it's what happens.

Once you start geting good success,
it snowbals bigger and bigger.

... Before you know it, you're a
master with women :-)

And I can't wait to see that day.
You better send me an email!

Until then, I'll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

- VIn

avoid the free sites!

Crack the Internet dating game

Internet dating seems so easy at first but it then becomes so frustrating when e-mail after e-mail goes unanswered. My friend PD has been using Internet dating for over three years only getting mediocre success. However in the last three months he has made major advances by tweaking his game.

His first ingredient to cracking the code was to only use paying sites. The charge in comparison to going out is minuscule however this deters the time wasters. So you get less guys as competition and women that are up to actually meeting you.

Talk to you soon Nathan

Untruths that are preventing our success. Instant improvement as soon as you realise!

Hi guys
After a wet weekend here in Manchester practicing our women getting skills we adjourned to the pub..as usual. One of the topics we discussed was about what had held us back for years and prevented us from realizing that attracting women was a learnable skill
We soon realized that we shared the most common three and these were all lies!!

Read this through and then just realize that they are all totally false. Where did they from and why didn't we challenge them before? The only conclusion we came to was that they were perpetuated by the dating industry to make millions and society to stop us having loads of women!!!
Please share your feedback back and let us now if this information has helped you. Here we go:

Number 1
You must buy gifts and shell out on expensive dates in order to get a women attracted to you. Then if you are good and worthy the women will grant you the gift of sex. This sends us down the path the dating related industries want. We buy jewelry and flowers. We pay extortionate prices at restaurants and shows. Look at the most used pick up line in the world "can I buy you a drink". You cannot buy attraction

Number 2
When I am successful the women will come to me. When I have toned my body or get that new job woman will suddenly find me attractive. Think of how ad companies always portray women pursuing men who own their products. To disprove this lie just look around at all the broke, fat and bald guys with smart good looking girlfriends. We all no them and say to ourselves how the f**k does he do it.
Impressing a woman does not trigger attraction

Number 3
The last one is close to our hearts because the profiteers and exploiters did not install it. It came from people that cared for us and were trying to help. It was "don't worry, be patient the right women will come along", "you're a good honest guy and women are foolish to turn you down" and "eventually you will get lucky". Being good, patient and relying on luck will lead to a life of celibacy.


There are a lot more however these three are the majors. Just by eliminating these three we can instantly improve. Think it is not so much as what to do but what not to do!

Talk to you soon Nathan

Just realize how easy it would be if you had total hands-on support from real guys that have already vastly improved their women getting skills?

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Would you like to know the secret to make women feel attracted to you?

On July 4th we are releasing our first in depth e-zine covering the most important factors of being found attractive by women. These account for up to 80% of your success and you have hardly spoke a word. Don't make the mistake I did of overlooking the obvious and looking for the complex!!

E-mail me if you want to receive the report, as I will not post it on public forums. I only want guys who are serious about improving their women getting skills to get it.

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Congratulate yourself for taking action to improve your dating life. It always feels better when you take a challenge on proactively. If you have any good friends then do them a favor and pass this valuable information on.
If you are not already a member of our Dating Solutions Facebook Group then join and contribute. Or you can check out our Dating Solutions blog. Your feedback will help fellow members to mutually benefit.
If you have any queries or questions then contact me personally at silvafox99@hotmail .com

Talk to you soon Nathan

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Come in low and under the radar by only using peripheral vision

Tactics

Come in low and under the radar by only using peripheral vision

This is exactly what women do. Have no fear they have scoped you peripherally and is totally aware. This is part of their defence mechanism in built from early days.

Once you look directly the game is up and she will form a pre-conceived judgement of you. She will not even give you a chance if you don’t meet her age and looks criteria.

We want to bypass this by not telegraphing our intention unless we are young and good looking!

How to Attract Women-Real tips and tactics to help you succeed!

Luck.

Think about that for one second. People who get rich... or attract
stunning women... or who are in great shape are that way because
they're... lucky. Not because they invested an amazing amount of
time, energy, and effort to learn a skill, but because they somehow
just got lucky.

It is, of course, an asinine view of the world, but that's the way
most people think. Much easier to blame someone else's success on
"luck" tacitly excusing their own failure as simply being "unlucky."

Consider this other gem of a phrase: "less fortunate." It applies
to people who are, obviously not rich, again carrying through the
logic that those who are not are somehow "unlucky."

The attitude is that success has nothing to do with paying the
price to create, design, and implement the life that you really
desire, that instead the best way to succeed is to sit around and
just wait to somehow "get lucky."

Ben Kenobi said it best in Star Wars: "in my experience, there's
no such thing as luck." And you know what? I agree with Obi
Wan--in my experience there is no such thing as luck.

You see, I've never had any luck with women. Or in business. Or
with fitness. Heck, if you look at my track record, you might say
I am notoriously unlucky.

But, despite my lack of luck, I'm viewed as a pretty successful guy
in all three areas, because I know a secret few people really ever
want to embrace: everything you want out of life can be gotten by
learning a skill.

That's it. It really is that simple. Money-getting is a skill.
Attraction is a skill. Fitness is a skill. If you want to excel
in all of them, all you have to do is learn the skill--and you
should.

Let the losers sit around wasting their time waiting for Lady Luck
to show up--women like men with skills, and you'll be shocked when
she shows up on your doorstep, anxious to meet you because you paid
the price to learn a skill... and now the time has come for your
reward.

On with the fun,

-John Alanis

Are you confident approaching women?

To overcome your approach anxiety with women is a fantastic achievement. However as we now can seem a daunting task and give us a lot of stress. This is because we have been programmed from an early age to associate approaching a woman and “asking her out” with rejection. If you cant get over this challenge your dead in the water!

By making a mental shift and realizing that becoming good with women is just skill. Then taking the effort to learn this skill you will soon become very good. In fact you only need basic skills as women respond so well to your new competence.

Become the ladies man you have always dreamed of it so easy when you have a mentor. Learn from my mistakes over the last seven years and let me show you how to do it on the streets!

Just by taking small steps you will make massive gains. All you need is to take the first step and let me show you how.

Talk to you soon Nathan

how would you approach these two?

Feel frustrated by not knowing how to approach women?

If you can’t approach a women and start a conversation you won’t get anywhere. Unless your so attractive women approach you and if you were you wouldn’t be reading this!

Imagine taking just a little time everyday to learn this skill. Rather relying on our old enemies of success –luck and chance. This skill is one most men don’t even realize is a skill. When you have learnt it from other guys is our group your only regret will be you didn’t realize years ago!!
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Just by taking small steps you will make massive gains. All you need is to take the first step and let me us you how. Trust guys who are out there overcoming the same challenges you are. Learn from there mistakes now and get some !

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Talk to you soon Nathan

"it's not the good plays you make, it's the bad plays you don't make that allow you to win."

Here is a post I received that bring home the importance of treating learning the skill of attraction as a game!

By j alanis

During my time learning attraction I've probably had every negative
thing in the world with women happen to me--once. Early on it
happened more than once, but once I discovered attraction was a
learnable skill, I never made the same mistake twice.

When he coached the Dallas Cowboys, Jimmy Johnson had a saying
about winning: "it's not the good plays you make, it's the bad
plays you don't make that allow you to win." He's absolutely
right, and the same thing applies to attraction.

There are two ways to learn bad plays not to make: 1) from the
experience of others and 2) from the dumb things you do while
learning the skill.

Both are effective, obviously, but #2 is the most memorable. How
you respond to "negative feedback" determines your future positive
success.


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The man who will eventually be successful notes what he did, finds
out where he went wrong, and modifies his behavior in the future.
The man who fails quits at the first sign of adversity and wiles
away the hours bitterly complaining about how unfair it all is.

That's why refunders are never, ever successful with women.
Instead of learning from their mistakes like doers do, they take
the easy way out, say "it didn't work for me" and wonder why other
men succeed when they fail.

If you want to learn and master a skill, the only way to do so is
by taking action and learning from the feedback. The skill of
attraction is different for every man, and every man has to
discover his own groove.

You cannot avoid the negative feedback and in fact, you should
embrace it. It's the only way to learn a skill most men are too
fragile to learn.
On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

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Talk to you soon Nathan

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Facebook has become the new pick up medium!

Submitted by luke2009
I've basically ditched texting and switched to Facebook.

Why?

Texting is private (most of the time.) Only you and here see it. Sure, it's good if you're trying to send her something private and can't talk with her in person or call her, but if you're using it to set up a date then Facebook is better because...

EVERYBODY sees your messages. (Well at least your friends do.)

Girl will text me:

Girl: Are we hanging out tomorrow?
Me: Yes we are. I'm busy at work. Just leave me a FB message and I'll get to it when Im done.

Most of the time she will post on my wall, sometimes though she will post it as a message which defeats the purpose, but what can you do!

Now, if she posts it on your wall, you have a hot girl(hopefully she's hot ) asking when you're going to hang out in front of all your friends. IT creates jealousy. Whenever a hot girl posts on my wall almost ALWAYS THE SAME DAY will another girl either text me or unexpectantly call me. Yes, girls who HAVENT come in contact with me will all of a sudden try hanging out with me.


Now you realize that success with women is just a learnable skill. Take action and and learn that skill. Contact me at silvafox99@hotmail.com
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It makes you less creepy.

My new thing now is to NOT get phone numbers. No, No, No. Screw that. When I meet a hot girl at a place where I can't really take her home, I usually will end the conversation with...

Me: I need to go, but you seem pretty cool. Do you have Facebook?

Girl: Yes, blah blah blah

Me: Cool, I have Facebook on my phone, let me send you a request

BAM! Just sent her a request. When she goes home, she'll see my profile with all these hot girls posting on my wall and flirting with me and it will make me more desirable . Screw taking her phone number and possibly getting flaked on. Sure, there are flakes on FB but I have dramatically seen them go down.

What I'll usually do is if she doesn't contact me, I'll either drop her a message or try to catch on her chat. Either way, I'll set up a meet and then get her # through that.

Now, on to some No No's of Facebook...

1. Don't spend too much time on it. I know some people who are Facebook whores. They comment on everyone's statuses and whenever you go on chat, they're online. Don't be one of these people. Facebook is good to set up meets, NOT TO GET GIRLS. Remember that, plus spending too much time on FB will devalue you and make you seem like you don't have a life.

2. Don't be all depressy. You need to show people that you're a fun, upbeat kind of guy. If you're having a bad day.. cool. Don't post a sad status, all it does is make you look pathetic.

I trust this free tip will bring you increased success in your dating life
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Women cannot abide boring men-by j alanis

Women cannot abide boring men. They crave excitement provided by
men, yet most men are as boring as dirt.

Lookit, the truth is this: we, as men, can be pretty happy with
predictable routine. Football makes us happy, money-getting makes
us happy, and having a woman present makes us happy.

But women are not like men. They require variety, stimulation, and
excitement, something few men consciously think to provide. If
you're an exciting man, you'll attract women... if you're not, you
won't.

The good news, though, is you don't have to be the most interesting
man in the world to be exciting to women. You just have to be more
exciting than other men. A man who is a great story teller, has a
good sense of humor, is interested in trying new things and going
new places is plenty exciting for a woman.

Most men inadvertently focus on being boring... and they lead boring
lives. But if you focus on being exciting, you'll have an exciting
life, and you'll discover you'll be happier when things are
exciting, than when things are dull.

On with the fun...


-John Alanis
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"