personal authority by j alanis

There is a single male trait women are biologically programmed to
respond to, a trait all men naturally have, but unfortunately a
trait that is now being repressed by societal and cultural
conditioning.

That trait is called "personal authority" and it is the essence of
maleness--an essence that is being denigrated and suppressed by all
the wimps, wusses, and girlie men in the media who are afraid of
the responsibility it carries.

Women want men who lead within the relationship, who look out for
them, who set boundaries for them, who provide not only stability
and security, but a feeling of stability and security.

Most men today look for women to lead, and do everything that's the
opposite of personal authority. They whine. They start arguments.
They worry about what others think. They're incredible insecure.
They have weak, damaged self images. They have entitlement
mentalities. They're looking for someone else to take care of
them, and worse yet, these kinds of males (not men) are everywhere.

What you have to understand about women is this: they have their
time wasted over and over by men with no personal authority
whatsoever, and so they test for it very quickly, then move on.
They don't wait around to see if you develop it, or if you're just
a bit slow to display it.

Not only must you have personal authority, she must perceive you to
have personal authority, else she will move on quickly. Women are
incredibly frustrated with all the girlie men they meet, and have
zero tolerance for them.

Personal authority is the lynchpin to attraction. If you have it...
or develop it... you will be successful with women. If you don't,
you won't--it's that simple.

Why Trust to Luck?

Hi guys
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When you decide to take up a new sport how have you approached it? you will probably have read up about it, watched a few videos and then practiced. Then you get out there and play it. You learn by your mistakes then train to overcome them, practice a little more then your out they're playing again. This whole process operates for any skill-based activity.
Then why do we as guys mystify success with women? We use phrases such as "I hope I get lucky tonight" and "if I'm patient the right one will come along"
This rarely happened to me and when the odd opportunity presented it self I blew it, as I didn't know what to do. I would offer to buy her a drink or ask her what she wanted to do. As I now realize this killed off her initial attraction to me.

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If you want to be successful with women just de mystify it and treat it as you would any other skill. Just train your self to demonstrate attractive traits. Practice as you go about your day to day life then when you see that women you desire go play. You will make mistake and strike out. However you will soon learn from those mistakes and achieve more and more success. Just as in sport the more you play the better you will become guaranteed!
One thing I soon realized is that you don't need to be that good at this sport because 99%of men don't have a clue. They will be spending money on flash cars and expensive dates when you can just go to the local shops and get a hot girl for next to nothing!!!

If you have enjoyed this article and benefited then do your good friends a favor and pass the information on.

Talk to you soon Nathan

If you have any question please feel free to contact me at silvafox99@hotmail.com

Are you up to it-Do you meet her criteria?

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Here is another article from J Alanis packed with useful and adaptable content. The only criteria to posting is that it does bring improvement as your success is the only thing that matters!!

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QUALIFICATION-
With men, qualification is a learned skill, and most men never
learn it. With women, it's natural--they are pre-programmed to
select a strong mate, and the instant a man reveals himself not to
be, she is done.

So, what should you as a man do, to make sure you're always
qualified where other men aren't?

Understand this: a woman will disqualify you in the first five
minutes of your interaction with her, sometimes much sooner. If
she's not feeling that "spark" by then, you're done.

What do men do to get disqualified? Many things--but I'll list some
of the more common ones. They come off as timid, boring, just like
every other guy, nice guys, sensitive guys, sweet guys, weak guys,
wimpy guys, dull guys, and on and on and on.

Notice I didn't say ugly or broke.

OK, so what does qualify men in the first five minutes? You're
quick on your feet, with clever comebacks that engage her mind.
You layer in innuendo so she links sexual feelings to you. You're
not desperate, but you're funny and confident AND... you love the
back and forth interaction, and are willing to patiently engage in
it.

That's another disqualifier--impatience. If a man is impatient with
a woman, if he wants to flick the switch instead of turning the
dial, she'll disqualify him naturally.

So, the thing to keep in mind is this: women are qualifying you
from the instant you meet them. But if you're aware of that, and
know what to look for, you'll always be qualified, and then she'll
be after you.

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If you have enjoyed this article and benefited then do your good friends a favor and pass the information on.

Talk to you soon Nathan

If you have any question please feel free to contact me at silvafox99@hotmail.com